Nigerian social commentator Geh Geh has urged men to be intentional about choosing partners who can support them financially and emotionally while they work towards building a better future.
Speaking on relationships and financial struggles, Geh Geh warned men against staying with partners who do not contribute during difficult times, only for those partners to walk away once success is achieved.
He noted that one of the challenges some men face is enduring hardship with someone who offers little support, only to lose the relationship after their efforts begin to yield positive results.
According to him, a healthy relationship should be built on mutual support, with both partners contributing in different ways toward each other’s growth and success.
Geh Geh further criticised the habit of some individuals claiming they “suffered together” despite not making meaningful financial contributions during the early stages of a relationship. He maintained that genuine partnership should involve shared commitment, sacrifice, and support from both sides.
His words…
“Nigerian men enough is enough. Let us stop suffering with Nigerian women. As a man the worst mistake you fit make for this life na to follow woman suffer. If you follow woman suffer, the day she make am she go dump you go follow another man. Man wey dey hustle, what you need na woman wey dey support with money and prayers. No be woman wey go come when you don build finish come dey claim say she suffer with you when you no get anything. Go and work o. Man wey dey work need woman wey dey work too so that they can bring their resources together and build a better future for their family and children.
Only in Nigeria you go see girl wey dey stay self contained with her family. Her mama and papa dey there all her siblings dey there. You go come see boy wey dey stay alone for two bedroom flat, AC and POP everywhere. You go come carry that girl come put for house, she go come dey say she suffer with the boy. Suffer as how.
Nigerian men enough is enough. Make Una no dey suffer with women again….”
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