A Nigerian lady has lamented the difficulty of finding men who are genuinely interested in marriage, arguing that although men appear to be everywhere, finding a suitable husband is a different matter.
In a video circulating on social media, the woman said she previously believed the common claim that “men full everywhere” until she began searching for a husband herself.
According to her, many of the men available are only interested in casual relationships and sexual encounters, after which they allegedly disappear or act as though they do not know the women involved.
She maintained that finding a genuine “husband material” is largely a matter of God’s grace, joking that if such men were readily available, many women would already be married.
The woman also recounted being deceived by a man who claimed he wanted to marry her, only for her to later realise that his intentions were primarily sexual. She said she eventually left the relationship after discovering his true intentions.
She advised women who find a genuinely committed man to hold on to him firmly.
She said:
“Men full everywhere, men full everywhere, including me I follow talk, ‘men full everywhere.’ In fact, na me talk am pass. Na my language be that, say ‘men full everywhere.’ Until I start dey look for husband, na then I know say men no dey anywhere.
“The men wey dey na the one wey go kn**ack you. Na the one wey go kn**ack you yayaya. Kn**ack you wetin no good. Kn**ack you belleful come go. Tomorrow them go see you, them go do like say them no know you.
“Husband material no dey anywhere. Na by grace of God. Because if e really dey, we for don marry. The one wey I see wey deceive me say e wan marry me, I no know say na wetin dey in-between my legs make am come my life. But when I know, I leave the relationship jejeje.
“Men no dey anywhere, my sister. The one wey you hold, hold am strong. Hold am strong like wealth. Hold am the way they dey hold God.”
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