A controversial sermon by a cleric has gone viral on social media after he made sweeping claims about marriage prospects for women, suggesting that some women are “destined” to marry already married men.
In the widely circulated message, the pastor argued that not all women would marry single men, adding that some may end up with married men—provided such men are willing to “do it the right way” and have allegedly “settled” matters with their first wives.
He further claimed that as women approach their late 20s or early 30s, especially those he described as having “mummy looks,” their chances of attracting single men reduce significantly, leaving mostly married men as potential suitors.
The cleric also stirred further controversy by advising single women to avoid using cars if they want to get married, insisting that lifestyle choices could affect marital opportunities. He recounted advising two sisters to sell their cars as a condition for marriage, claiming they later got married after complying.
The remarks have since triggered widespread backlash online, with many Nigerians condemning the statements as regressive, misleading, and insensitive to women. Critics argue that such teachings risk promoting unhealthy relationship dynamics while reinforcing gender stereotypes.
Others, however, say the controversy reflects ongoing societal debates around marriage expectations, age pressure, and economic status in relationships.
The viral sermon continues to generate heated discussions across social media platforms.
