A lady has stirred widespread reactions on social media after sharing controversial relationship advice in a viral video, encouraging women to accept financial support from married men while warning them against developing emotional attachments.
In the clip, the woman argued that being in a relationship with a financially struggling boyfriend should not stop a woman from receiving money from a married man who is willing to spend on her.
However, she repeatedly stressed that such relationships should remain strictly transactional and should never become emotional.
Woman’s relationship advice goes viral
The woman opened her remarks by saying:
“See, you can be with your broke boyfriend and still be dating a married man, yes. If the married man wants to spend money on you, not because of your broke boyfriend, you don’t want to collect money.”
She encouraged women to accept the money offered by married men, insisting there was nothing wrong with benefiting financially if the opportunity presented itself.
According to her:
“If you want to collect money, chop, chop, chop, chop the money, but don’t fall in love.”
She repeatedly warned against becoming emotionally attached, maintaining that accepting financial gifts should not lead to romantic feelings.
Repeated warning against emotional attachment
Throughout the video, the woman emphasised the importance of keeping emotions out of such arrangements.
She said:
“Don’t fall in love with a married man.”
The speaker continued with a series of remarks that appeared fragmented but suggested women should ensure their financially struggling partners also benefit where possible while avoiding emotional involvement with married men.
She concluded by reiterating her message:
“Chopping money, but don’t fall in love with a married man, no. Don’t fall in love with a married man, no.”
Watch the video here…
” You can be with your broke boyfriend and still be dating a married man”
” Chop the married man money but no go fall in love”
– Lady advises ladies pic.twitter.com/3e4ifqeZ4m
— Metro Naija (@metronaija) July 13, 2026
