A Nigerian man has shared a piece of advice with first sons, urging them to prioritize financial stability as they often face pressure and disrespect from their own family members.
According to him, the challenges faced by first sons do not always come from outsiders, as family members can sometimes be the first people to disrespect or undermine them.
He expressed his view in a social media post, stressing the importance of having money and being financially independent.
“As a first son, just have money; the disrespect dey first start from family before outsiders,” he wrote.
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Read some comments below:
@B.I.Z.A🥸Dem pour bros spit 😂💔 no more way for poor people you think say na meme 😂💔”
@CallmeOla:”I feel your pain. We go dey alright las las”
@🃏everybody hates motion🃏:”Depends on the family, my own go first cover you make sure say you done dey sane I love it here man, but all good God is the greatest.”
@Engr D:”Bro . Me first na first son * don’t let their shit get to you . People wey no guide when dem young , when country good want make you guide now wey APC dey power . Baba clean Ur eyes go live Ur live”
@ZemaionLorenzo:”My eyes de see plenty as only child other siblings of my mom and dad get children”
@Reliable Surz🇺🇳:”Stay away from them and go get your life together… disrespect will always come from every fckn angle be it relationship , family or among friends once your life is not yet glamorous.”
@BADMANNASTY:”As first son, na you be emergency contact, ATM and counselor 😭 No money = “you no dey useful”. Get money = “OUR first son” same family.”
@Your ex mass-servant 💎:”I can relate. Before I started sending my family and relatives money without them asking man, all of them were like “who be that one sef, he no get use”. Made money brought them all in and left them hanging. They’ll need to call me now multiple times, write sweet messages and wait until I’m in a good mood to answer and help em.”
@MEN:”It was nvr easy been the first son, and there’s nothing you can do about it … The funniest part is that, you still have to forgive them if eventually the table turns”
@BoomShakaLaa!:”Depends on the family tho,plus this is regardless of being first son”
