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“I’m Very Single Because Most Men Who Approach Me Are Not My Spec” — Damilola Oni Opens Up on Love, Marriage Pressure

In a recent interview with Oyinmomo TV, the actress made it clear that her single status is not due to lack of suitors, but a personal choice based on standards and compatibility.

According to her, many of the men who approach her are simply not what she considers suitable for a long-term relationship.

“I’m not married. I’m currently single. Very single. Most of the men that make advances at me are not usually my spec,” she said.

Her statement has sparked conversations about modern relationships, especially among young Nigerians who are increasingly focused on personal values before marriage.

Damilola Oni explained that she is not in a rush to settle down just because people are interested in her. For her, marriage is a serious lifetime decision that should not be taken lightly.

She emphasized patience, saying she believes the right relationship will happen at the right time.

“When you’re not at your destination, you’ll keep moving ahead. When I meet the right person, I’ll know,” she added.

The actress also noted that she trusts her instincts when it comes to choosing a life partner and refuses to be pressured by society or public expectations.

Her comments reflect a growing trend where many people, especially women, are prioritizing emotional compatibility, shared values, and personal peace over rushing into marriage.

While she did not go into detail about her ideal partner, she maintained that she has a clear understanding of what she wants.

As reactions continue online, many Nigerians are debating whether high standards help or delay relationships.

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