A lady has shared how her friend stopped communicating with her after she recommended genetic counselling and testing following the death of the friend’s mother from ovarian cancer.
The lady recounted the experience while urging people with a family history of cancer to speak with their doctors about their potential risks and available preventive measures.
According to her, she decided to discuss genetic testing with her friend after taking her out following the mourning period for her late mother. She explained that her suggestion was motivated by concerns about the family’s medical history.
However, the conversation reportedly did not go as she had hoped, as her friend reacted angrily and accused her of wishing cancer and death upon her.
Recounting what happened, she said, “She accused me of wishing her cancer and death. Said I was such a negative person, and eventually stopped speaking to me.”
The lady admitted that the reaction left her feeling terrible, but maintained that she had only wanted to help her friend understand her potential health risks.
About a year later, her friend eventually underwent genetic testing and discovered that she carried an inherited gene mutation associated with an increased risk of ovarian cancer.
After consulting with her doctors, the friend reportedly decided to freeze her eggs and undergo surgery to remove her reproductive organs as part of efforts to reduce her cancer risk.
The lady disclosed that she was surprised when her former friend eventually reached out to her again after ending their communication.
Reflecting on the experience, she said, “Because sometimes, loving someone means having conversations they may not be ready to hear.”
She subsequently encouraged people with a family history of cancer to consult qualified medical professionals to determine whether genetic counselling and testing would be beneficial to them.
She also emphasised that carrying an inherited gene mutation does not automatically mean a person will develop cancer. However, understanding one’s genetic risk can help individuals and their doctors make informed decisions about screening, preventive measures and medical care.
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