Nollywood actress Ruth Kadiri has advised couples to consider having low-budget weddings, warning that the pressure to organise an expensive ceremony can negatively affect their mental health and marriage.
The actress noted that many people fail to recognise the emotional and financial burdens that come with planning a big wedding, adding that some relationships change after the wedding ceremony.
“Big weddings put pressure on couples and the marriage itself, and I don’t think people realise that. People can date for years, but after the wedding, some people change,” she said.
According to Ruth Kadiri, couples should prioritise their peace of mind and the future of their marriage rather than feel compelled to organise an elaborate wedding to impress others.
She explained that putting themselves under unnecessary pressure to meet the expectations associated with expensive weddings could take a toll on their mental health.
The actress’s remarks have drawn attention to the importance of financial planning and emotional well-being when preparing for marriage.
Her advice suggests that couples should focus on building a healthy relationship and starting their married life on a solid foundation instead of spending beyond their means to stage a lavish ceremony.
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Read some comments below:
@King fulfilled 🐐:”Some people self na their church go contribute give them to marry 😀 this life is too sweet when you remove your self from any unnecessary pressure. Live your life as you see it everyday don’t over do. And above all be contented with your capacity”
@Onyinyechukwu:”She did not lie oo especially in this country where poor people plenty pass the rich. Killing yourself to impress people that will not stay up to 6 hours that day is not wise. Na “happy married life” you go collect and both of you will face reality after.”
@update:”She’s very correct, big wedding destroys marriages”
